%AMcDonald, Nora%AMentis, Helena%Anull Ed.%D2021%I %K %MOSTI ID: 10291218 %PMedium: X %TBuilding for ‘We’: Safety Settings for Couples with Memory Concerns %XDesigning technologies that support the mutual cybersecurity and autonomy of older adults facing cognitive challenges requires close collaboration of partners. As part of research to design a Safety Setting application for older adults with memory loss or mild cognitive impairment (MCI), we use a scenario-based participatory design. Our study builds on previous findings that couples’ approach to memory loss was characterized by a desire for flexibility and choice, and an embrace of role uncertainty. We find that couples don't want a system that fundamentally alters their relationship and are looking to maximize self-surveillance competence and minimize loss of autonomy for their partners. All desire Safety Settings to maintain their mutual safety rather than designating one partner as the target of oversight. Couples are open to more rigorous surveillance if they have control over what types of activities trigger various levels of oversight. Country unknown/Code not availablehttps://doi.org/10.1145/3411764.3445071OSTI-MSA