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Title: Individual and relational differences in desire for touch in romantic relationships
Although touch is common in romantic relationships and is generally beneficial, people differ in the extent to which they desire to give and receive touch. The current research identified individual and relationship characteristics that predict overall desire for touch and unique desire for overtly affectionate versus indirectly affectionate forms of touch. In both a sample of dating, engaged, and married individuals (Study 1) and a dyadic sample of married couples (Study 2), the strongest predictors of overall desire for touch were sex (being female) and high relationship quality (actor and partner). Attachment avoidance also predicted lower desire for touch overall (Study 1), and actor and partner attachment avoidance predicted lower desire for indirectly affectionate touch, in particular (Study 2). Finally, greater psychological distress predicted greater desire for indirectly affectionate touch in both studies. This novel descriptive information about desire for touch provides a foundation for future intervention work.  more » « less
Award ID(s):
1650477
PAR ID:
10417262
Author(s) / Creator(s):
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Date Published:
Journal Name:
Journal of Social and Personal Relationships
Volume:
38
Issue:
7
ISSN:
0265-4075
Page Range / eLocation ID:
2029 to 2052
Format(s):
Medium: X
Sponsoring Org:
National Science Foundation
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