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Title: An intimacy gap? Exploring U.S. men’s experience with and capacity for physical intimacy in their same-sex friendships.
Award ID(s):
1944445
PAR ID:
10574302
Author(s) / Creator(s):
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Publisher / Repository:
APA
Date Published:
Journal Name:
Psychology of Men & Masculinities
Volume:
26
Issue:
1
ISSN:
1524-9220
Page Range / eLocation ID:
35 to 48
Format(s):
Medium: X
Sponsoring Org:
National Science Foundation
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