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Title: Self-esteem's impacts on intimacy-building: Pathways through self-disclosure and responsiveness
Building intimate relationships is rewarding but entails risking rejection. Trait self-esteem—a person's overall self-evaluation—has important implications for how people behave in socially risky situations. Integrating established models of responsiveness and intimacy with theory and research on self-esteem, we present a model that highlights the ways in which self-esteem impacts intimacy-building. A review of relevant research reveals that compared to people with high self-esteem, people with low self-esteem exhibit interpersonal perceptions and behaviors that can hinder intimacy development—for example, disclosing less openly, and eliciting and perceiving less responsiveness from others. We identify important directions for future research and consider methods for encouraging intimacy-promoting processes among people with low self-esteem.  more » « less
Award ID(s):
1941350
NSF-PAR ID:
10478284
Author(s) / Creator(s):
; ; ; ;
Editor(s):
Reis, H.; Itzchakov, G.
Publisher / Repository:
Elsevier
Date Published:
Journal Name:
Current Opinion in Psychology
Volume:
52
Issue:
C
ISSN:
2352-250X
Page Range / eLocation ID:
101596
Subject(s) / Keyword(s):
["Self-esteem","Self-disclosure","Responsiveness","Intimacy","Close relationships"]
Format(s):
Medium: X
Sponsoring Org:
National Science Foundation
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